Update pull request template to be more helpful
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-#### Instructions for Apache Thrift Pull Requests ####
+Some helpful tips for a successful Apache Thrift PR:
-* All code changes require an Apache Jira THRIFT Issue
- (http://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/THRIFT)
-* Pull requests should contain a single commit per issue, or we will ask you to squash it.
-* The pull request title must begin with the Jira THRIFT ticket identifier, for example:
+* Did you test your changes locally or using CI in your fork?
+* Is the Apache Jira THRIFT ticket identifier in the PR title?
+* Is the Apache Jira THRIFT ticket identifier in the commit message?
+* Did you squash your changes to a single commit?
+* Are these changes backwards compatible? (please say so in PR description)
+* Do you need to update the language-specific README?
+
+Example ideal pull request title:
THRIFT-9999: an example pull request title
-* Commit messages must follow this pattern for code changes (deviations will not be merged):
+Example ideal commit message:
THRIFT-9999: [summary of fix, one line if possible]
Client: [language(s) affected, comma separated, use lib/ directory names please]
-* Remove these instructions from any pull request description.
-
For more information about committing, see CONTRIBUTING.md