Fix Python 3.12 build issues in thrift Python (#3276)

- Add pyproject.toml with setuptools build requirement for PEP 517 compliance
- Replace distutils imports with setuptools equivalents
- Use setuptools error names directly (CompileError, ExecError, PlatformError)
- Fix macOS header collision with ntohll/htonll macros in endian.h
- Add a matrix of MacOS versions (macos-15-intel, macos-14, macos-15,
  macos-26)
- Add a matrix of non-EOL Python versions for testing
- Remove MSVC2015 from the test matrix (very old).
- Support MSVC2022, the latest in AppVeyor.
- Upgrade tornado, twisted, and zope.interface versions to the first
  that support Python 3.12.
- Try to make the test_socket, RunClientServer, and TestServer tests less flaky.

This fixes the ModuleNotFoundError: No module named 'distutils' error
when building thrift with Python 3.12+.
diff --git a/lib/nodejs/test/package-lock.json b/lib/nodejs/test/package-lock.json
index e7f9543..6faee9d 100644
--- a/lib/nodejs/test/package-lock.json
+++ b/lib/nodejs/test/package-lock.json
@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@
       }
     },
     "../../..": {
-      "version": "0.22.0",
+      "version": "0.23.0",
       "dev": true,
       "license": "Apache-2.0",
       "dependencies": {